Have you ever thought :
“What if I’m missing out on my life?”
Feelings of failure in love, career, creativity, family… This intimate doubt runs through all of us at some point.
But what if this fear is based on an illusion?
And what if, in reality, you simply can’t miss out on life?
People who have had a near-death experience (NDE ) offer us a deeply moving insight into the true meaning of our existence: an insight where love, joy and learning take center stage… and where failure does not exist.
Why “successful living” is a tricky idea
From childhood, we are encouraged to set goals:
- successful studies,
- find love,
- career,
- start a family…
And we end up believing that our value depends on these external successes.
But, once we’ve achieved these goals, are we really happier?
Often, no. Because a new lack arises. A new ” I’ll be happy when…”.
⚠️ The trap is to believe that happiness is found in fulfillment.
NDEs tell us something quite different.
What NDEs teach us: love is the only true success.
People who have undergone an NDE all report the same discovery:
➡️ We come from an energy of unconditional love.
And what we came here to experience is not a series of performances… but a growth in love and consciousness.
🗣️ “The only thing we take with us after death is the love we have given and received.”
You learn, so you progress
Your life is a school with no exams, no fixed syllabus, no sanctions.
Everything you experience, even the dark moments, serves to help you grow.
- Did you fail?
- Did you hurt yourself?
- Did you get lost?
These are not mistakes, but learning experiences. And if you don’t learn in this life, you will later. For your soul is eternal.
Life is not a test to pass
Many imagine God as a strict schoolmaster, who grades our choices and judges us in the end.
But NDEs describe a very different God:
➡️ a luminous, joyful, curious, loving, non-judgmental Presence.
💬 “The Light loves your life just as it is, with no expectations, no demands.”
Your only “goal”: to be happy and radiant
Many experimenters say that God – or the Light – simply said to them:
“Do what you love. Be joyful. Love. That’s all that matters.”
There’s nothing selfish about it.
💡 Doing what you love generates energy that benefits yourself and others.
- Choosing joy over fear
- Smile instead of shutting up
- Loving instead of judging
That’s what success is all about.
🌟 You have already succeeded
You are already a being of light, eternal, connected to love.
Your life is not a test, but a field of exploration.
Like a child learning to walk, you progress step by step. And every fall is a lesson, never a failure.
💬 “I never lose. Either I win or I learn.” – Nelson Mandela
The key: love yourself and love, here and now
Whenever you feel empty, unhappy or lost, ask yourself this simple question:
“How can I love myself and love, here and now?”
No need for heroic gestures. A look, a gentle word, a smile…
Loving yourself is also a sacred act.
In short: you can’t miss your life.
No mistake, no “bad choice”, no regret can erase the fundamental truth:
You are loved, guided and eternal.
You can’t miss your life, because you’re already on your way.
And the Light walks with you every moment.
To find out more, visit Jeffery Olsen’s website and read the article Un amour sans limites.
